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This is beautiful & worth reading.. Very beneficial ... ------- Many of us feel inadequate this Ramadan. Long hours of fasting with short nights makes it hard for those of us who are parents of young kids, or those of us working full time, or those of us who are unable to fast, "FEEL" Ramadan. We can't do the extra worship we used to and even when we get in our extra Qur'an or pray in the mosque we can't even concentrate, so we end up just feeling lame. But what we really need is a perspective shift. We need to recognize that taking care of the future generation, providing financial support for ourselves and loved ones or taking care of our health are some of the highest forms of worship in and of themselves. We just need to make the intention and internally shift our perspectives. Give yourself 5 minutes, just you and Allah swt. Sit and raise your hands and share what's in your heart with Him in your own words, even though He is well aware of it. Allow th...

Some of the best quotes by "Ameerul Mu'mineen" Umar ibnul Khattab (ra), the second Khalifah of Islam  "Get used to a tough life, for luxury does not last forever" — Umar ibnul Khattab (ra)  "I have never regretted my silence. As for my speech I've regretted it many times"  —Umar ibnul Khattab (ra)  “Allah loves moderation and hates extravagance and excess.”Umar Ibn Khattab (ra) "I thought of all types of wealth, but couldn't find a better wealth than contentment in a little" — Umar ibnul Khattab (ra) "Let not your love become attachment, nor your hate become destruction.” —  Umar ibnul-khattab {ra} “May God bless the man who says less and does more.” —  ‘Umar ibnul Khattab (ra) “Patience is the healthiest ingredient of our life.” —  Umar Ibnul-Khattab (ra) “Doing good for a good done to you is simply repayment, whereas doing good for an evil done to you is a tremendous virtue.”'Umar ibnul Khattab (ra) Umar ibnul Khattab (ra) ...

Yesterday was the first time my Nusaybah (5 years and 7 months) attempted to fast from lunch (1:30pm) till maghrib (9:24pm).  she wasn't complaining ماشاء الله  apart from the time she saw her little sister had dinner at 6pm! Lol When ifthar time arrived, I could see the excitement and happiness, while we were sitting and made دعاء together on the dinner table, she kept asking:" can I eat now? Is it time for ifthar now?" For 5-6 times!  I then reminded her the Hadith about the two happiness of those who fast 1. When they break their fast 2. When they meet Allah ﷻ due to the reward of their fasting She eventually understood and stopped asking Today, I asked her again if she wants to fast again, she said:" I don't think so mama, I will be sooo hungry like yesterday" lols She then asked: "so how long are you going to fast mama?" "29 or 30 days ان شاءٓ الله " I said What makes me happy and touched the most is her next comment: "I hope th...

Marhaban Ya Ramadhan May this Ramadhan become life changing moment for us May Allah ﷻ showers His blessing and forgiveness in this blessed month May Allah ﷻ writes our name to be one of those who are freed from the hellfire  May Allah ﷻ accepts our Siyaam, Salawat, ad'iyaat, ruku', sujuud and every good deeds we do May Allah ﷻ grants us the ultimate result: being Al muttaqun May Allah ﷻ grants the victory to Islam and Muslims very soon اللهمّ امين يا ربّ العالمين  RAMADHAN MUBARAK 1436H - 2015 Yumna/ Yuni and family ❤️

OK, so you aren't an awful husband. But there are some pretty awful things you definitely don't want creeping into your marriage.  Your wife deserves better than a husband with any of these 10 ugly habits. 1. Critical Please watch yourself and don't get caught in the trap of criticizing your wife. Choose to see the good in your wife. Compliment her on all the things she is doing right. Next time you find yourself wanting to tell her something you don't like about her, switch it around and pay her a sincere compliment. She will love it. 2. Controlling Believe it or not, you aren't always right. And your beautiful wife is actually very good at making her own decisions (and typically she makes very good decisions). So stop feeling like you need to control where she's going, what she's doing, how much she's spending and more. Instead of stressing about that, work together as a team, encouraging and supporting each other. Let your wife be her own person, and ...

Dalamnya hati tiada yang bisa menduga Luasnya samudra tiada yang mampu menjelajahinya Demikian rasa yang aku indra Sulit untuk ku ungkap dengan kata kata Makna yang terucap  tak sehebat dan tak sekuat  Hasrat  untuk kau bisa menangkap  Meski aku sudah berupaya sekuat tenaga Tetap saja aku hanya mampu diam seribu bahasa  Karena aku sendiri pun tak tahu Apa yang sebenarnya tersimpan jauh di lubuk hatiku  Sedih senang gundah gulana Khawatir namun yakin Bahwa aku bisa  Bisa selalu tegak menyambut hari yang baru Bisa untuk selalu melihat indahnya siang Tenangnya malam Bisa untuk merancang rencana ke depan  Tanpa merasa takut atau ragu Dan tentu tanpa merasa kesepian

She went to the back garden and picked up the flowers and presented it to me and said: "Mama, I give you the flowers because I love you" Awwwww Allahu yubarik laha. Some Other time she said: "Mama, can I give you a biiiig hug?"  "Of course, but Why?"I said "Because I love you sooo much! I love you as much as water in the ocean. I love you as much as the leaves fall from the tree  I love you as much as the trees in the forest" It melt my heart. ❤️❤️❤️ زُيِّنَ زُيِّنَ لِلنَّاسِ حُبُّ الشَّهَوَاتِ مِنَ النِّسَاء وَالْبَنِينَ وَالْقَنَاطِيرِ الْمُقَنطَرَةِ مِنَ الذَّهَبِ وَالْفِضَّةِ وَالْخَيْلِ الْمُسَوَّمَةِ وَالأَنْعَامِ وَالْحَرْثِ ذَلِكَ مَتَاعُ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا وَاللّهُ عِندَهُ حُسْنُ الْمَآبِ {14  Beautified for men is the love of things they covet; women, children, much of gold and silver (wealth), branded beautiful horses, cattle and well-tilled land. This is the pleasure of the present world's life; but Allah has the excellent retu...