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Ugly habits

OK, so you aren't an awful husband. But there are some pretty awful things you definitely don't want creeping into your marriage. 
Your wife deserves better than a husband with any of these 10 ugly habits.
1. Critical
Please watch yourself and don't get caught in the trap of criticizing your wife. Choose to see the good in your wife. Compliment her on all the things she is doing right. Next time you find yourself wanting to tell her something you don't like about her, switch it around and pay her a sincere compliment. She will love it.
2. Controlling
Believe it or not, you aren't always right. And your beautiful wife is actually very good at making her own decisions (and typically she makes very good decisions). So stop feeling like you need to control where she's going, what she's doing, how much she's spending and more. Instead of stressing about that, work together as a team, encouraging and supporting each other. Let your wife be her own person, and give…

Dalam sepi

Dalamnya hati tiada yang bisa mendugaLuasnya samudra tiada yang mampu menjelajahinya Demikian rasa yang aku indra Sulit untuk ku ungkap dengan kata kata
Makna yang terucap  tak sehebat dan tak sekuat  Hasrat untuk kau bisa menangkap 
Meski aku sudah berupaya sekuat tenaga Tetap saja aku hanya mampu diam seribu bahasa  Karena aku sendiri pun tak tahu Apa yang sebenarnya tersimpan jauh di lubuk hatiku 
Sedih senang gundah gulana Khawatir namun yakin
Bahwa aku bisa  Bisa selalu tegak menyambut hari yang baru Bisa untuk selalu melihat indahnya siang Tenangnya malam Bisa untuk merancang rencana ke depan  Tanpa merasa takut atau ragu Dan tentu tanpa merasa kesepian

She loves me

She went to the back garden and picked up the flowers and presented it to me and said: "Mama, I give you the flowers because I love you"
Awwwww Allahu yubarik laha.
Some Other time she said:
"Mama, can I give you a biiiig hug?"  "Of course, but Why?"I said
"Because I love you sooo much! I love you as much as water in the ocean. I love you as much as the leaves fall from the tree  I love you as much as the trees in the forest"
It melt my heart. ❤️❤️❤️
زُيِّنَ زُيِّنَ لِلنَّاسِ حُبُّ الشَّهَوَاتِ مِنَ النِّسَاء وَالْبَنِينَ وَالْقَنَاطِيرِ الْمُقَنطَرَةِ مِنَ الذَّهَبِ وَالْفِضَّةِ وَالْخَيْلِ الْمُسَوَّمَةِ وَالأَنْعَامِ وَالْحَرْثِ ذَلِكَ مَتَاعُ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا وَاللّهُ عِندَهُ حُسْنُ الْمَآبِ {14 
Beautified for men is the love of things they covet; women, children, much of gold and silver (wealth), branded beautiful horses, cattle and well-tilled land. This is the pleasure of the present world's life; but Allah has the excellent return (Paradis…