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I knew I Loved you!

I posted this on my Facebook on November 16! And apparently the person I talked about on the following status knew that I talked about her ๐Ÿ˜‰ and that i I dedicated the status for her! 
too sweet, init?? !!! And I was searching and searching the answer of this feeling and finally I got it. It gives me satisfaction and put my quest to rest.
You can read the answer at the end of this post
------ I was in the gathering and expected her to come  and turn up.
It's been a few weeks I haven't seen her but I deeply missed her. 
As soon as she walked in the room, I felt the warmth of her presence and I couldn't help not to smile although she didn't notice it. I can describe my happiness as if I meet an old friend for the first time after years of separation. 
We didn't exchange words, but once we catch up, the flow of our conversation can be endless.
I feel like she gets me. she's funny, intelligent, and very sensible. I value greatly her advice on many issues. I can rely on he…

Parenting programme

Resume program Kelas Pengasuhan Anak
Kenapa kita harus belajar ttg pengasuhan anak : 1. ร€llah memerintahkan kita utk terus belajar 2. Zaman : zaman telah berubah. Dulu akses informasi terbatas. Skrg akses informasi tersebar luas 3. Agar anak bahagia
 Kenapa orang tua sering emosi menghadapi anak --krn ortu tidak punya ilmu
 Kenapa anak berperilaku buruk -- krn beda pola asuh
 Kenapa anak menjadi beban -- karena kita tidak bersama anak, kita hanya didekat anak. Ortu sibuk dengan gadget
PR utk ortu : 
1. PR ke-1 : InsyaAllah mulai hari ini sy bersungguh sungguh jadi ortu betulan, bukan kebetulan. Sy bersungguh sungguh memulainya dari hal yang sederhana yaitu menyediakan waktu bersama anak setiap hari, setidaknya 30 menit setiap sebelum 12 tahun dan 3 jam setidaknya setiap bulan setelahnya
2. PR ke-2 : InsyaAllah mulai hr ini, sy akan MEMBEBASKAN hidup anak sy demi kebahagiaan mereka sepanjang tidak berlebihan, yaitu :
Tidak membahayakan dirinya Tidak merugikan orang lain Tidak melanggar hukum …

Turning five!

Dedicated to my beautiful daughter Nusaybah Khalifa who is turning five today!
May Allah ๏ทป guides and loves you  May Allah ๏ทป makes you pious servant of His 
ุงู„ู„ู‡ู…ّ ุงู…ูŠู† ูŠุง ุฑุจّ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…ูŠู† 
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Encircle your child with love
Offer your hand to guide her
Shower her with tenderness
Shelter away her fears

May she look for sunshine when
There seems to be clouds
May she take a step further to
Find the best in people and life

May she show kindness and patience
Towards others
May confidence and poise propel
Her in life

Teach her appreciation for small
Things in life
The abundance of nature close at
Her feet
Help her to learn the power of
Words spoken
The response to actions which
Might be awakened

Shower her with your love and
Your pride
Protect her as needed, but let
Her fly free
Free to stand tall with absolute
Dignity

As she grows and discovers
Keep memories keen
For times in the future
When she flies free

Remember too as she grows to
Be a woman
She's a reflection of yourself
A reflection of the joy, kindness,
And dignity
A …

Story that will move you!

A must read story of the not so prominent Sahabee – Julay’beeb ุฑุถูŠ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุนู†ู‡ู…. It is narrated in the Books of History that Julay’beeb ุฑุถูŠ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุนู†ู‡ู… was a Sahabee who was: • short in height • deformed in appearance • his lineage was not known • no one knew who his parents had been • with no clan to protect him • no tribe willing to accept him as their own • he cut a lonely figure even the small children of Madinah would tease & mock him • owing to his disabilities no one would allow him to sit in their company.
He survived as best he could, many a lonely night in Madinah he spent wondering the streets in despair, tears of desperation would run down his cheeks, there was no one willing to offer him love or compassion, he had no family & not a single friend in the world.
Life for him was a lonely struggle.
After the arrival of the Prophet of Allaah ๏ทบ to Madinah, the fortunes of Julay’beeb ุฑุถูŠ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุนู†ู‡ู… changed.
He would go & sit in the company of the Prophet ๏ทบ & listen intently, rarely…

Great reminder!

I believe there will be a point in our life that will define who we are. those points can be the time of hardship as well as the time of ease ior even a single short conversation with someone you recently know.
That's one of the moment I experience today!
ุงู„ุญู…ุฏ ู„ู„ู‡ ุฑุจ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…ูŠู†  I spoke to a sister whom I knew recently and we share about the worry we have on how much time we invest to build our relationship with Allah while we also try to build the next generations (our children).
Often, we (me specifically) miss to have the time to just sit and recite Quran as long as we want to, pray as khusyu' as we want to, contemplate on life without any distruction but she said one sentence that it's not the first time I heard but this time it just click and make sense more than ever before.
"This is just a phase we have to go through sis, soon the kids will grow up and being independent then we can pick up on what we left off.  for the time being,  keep remind yourself that we are doi…

Memorable date

10 September 2014
This is the day rumaysa khalifah born 2 years ago
MashaAllah time flies and Alhamdulillah she is growing up well and she's full of life MashaAllah tabarakallah
May Allah protects her and bless her with goodness of life and piety Amin 
10 September 2014  It's also the first time my big girl starts reception class aka proper school with uniform etc
MashaAllah! I was so nervous the night before. I might be too excited but worry at the same time. Excited because she will be in the school the whole 5 days from 8am to 2:30pm. Prior to this one she only went for 2 and a half days at Iman pre school which is literally next door. But now we have to travel around 25 minutes by car and the school time starts very early, well at least earlier than any normal state school. 
ุงู„ุญู…ุฏ ู„ู„ู‡ ุฑุจ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…ูŠู† she was generally exicited since she has meet the teacher twice before she even started. Once was on induction day and second time was when the teacher visited our house. ู…ุงุดุงุก ุงู„ู„ู‡ I fou…

{percakapan} super Mom!

Few days ago when we just came back from out and about my 4 years and 10 months old daughter said to me (out of the blue): 
"Wow mama, you're doing everything!"
I asked: "What do you mean Nusaybah?"
Well, you're a doctor (I don't know why she highlighted this role first- perhaps it's because I just put a bandage on her finger- and you're a driver, you're a cleaner, you're a cook, you're a book reader, you are everything. 
Me:" Awww that's very sweet of you Nusaybah, jazakillah khair for those kind words"
N:"no wonder you're tired all the time, because you're doing everything!"
Me:" errmmmm yes maybe that's why"
Children always speak the truth, in fact,when I read her bedtime story I often fall asleep before it's even finished and then I mumbled in Indonesian language. She would then laugh.The strange things: she seems enjoying that kind of situation so she usually stretch her bed time till l…

{percakapan} how Allah puts us on this earth

Nusaybah likes a story telling time. OftenI am the one who give up due to the tiredness after long reading and answering all questions she is having related to the story we read it or I tell. One of her favourite story is the Prophet Adam's story Here are aome funny comments she made.
I was telling her: "due to the mistake that prophet Adam a.s made, Allah sent him down to the earth. And from him and hawa born mankind including us.  We are the children of Adam or in Arabic is called BANI Adam"
Nusaybah:"why prophet Adam become BUNNY (read: Bani) mama?"
I didn't understand what she meant so I asked her: "what do you mean?" I didn't say he became "bunny"
Nusaybah: "yes you did mama, you said we are BUNNY Adam"
I was laughing out loud!
Apparently she thought BANI as BUNNY  Well it sounds the same, no wonder she thought that way 
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Another occasion is when Nusaybah suddenly asked me
Nusaybah:" mama, do you know how …

Penyejuk hati hari ini

Seperti Itu Dakwah.. (Alm Ust Rahmat Abdullah) Memang seperti itu dakwah. Dakwah adalah cinta. Dan cinta akan meminta semuanya dari dirimu. Sampai pikiranmu. Sampai perhatianmu. Berjalan, duduk, dan tidurmu. Bahkan di tengah lelapmu, isi mimpimu pun tentang dakwah. Tentang umat yg kau cintai.
Lagi-lagi memang seperti itu. Dakwah. Menyedot saripati energimu. Sampai tulang belulangmu. Sampai daging terakhir yg menempel di tubuh rentamu. Tubuh yg luluh lantak diseret-seret...  Tubuh yang hancur lebur dipaksa berlari.
Seperti itu pula kejadiannya pada rambut Rasulullah. Beliau memang akan tua juga. Tapi kepalanya beruban karena beban berat dari ayat yg diturunkan Allah.
Sebagaimana tubuh mulia Umar bin Abdul Aziz. Dia memimpin hanya sebentar. Tapi kaum muslimin sudah dibuat bingung. Tidak ada lagi orang miskin yg bisa diberi sedekah. Tubuh mulia itu terkoyak-koyak. Sulit membayangkan sekeras apa sang Khalifah bekerja. Tubuh yang segar bugar itu sampai rontok. Hanya dalam 2 tahun ia sakit parah kemud…

{Percakapan} bikin geli!

Conversation that makes me laugh out loud last night
Me:"ouch, I am having a stomachache"
Nusaybah:"why mama?"
Me:"not sure, maybe it's because of the food I ate"
Nusaybah:"what did you eat today?"
Me:"well, I had toast for breakfast and ermmmmm... egg for dinner"
Nusaybah:"ahhh now I know, why mama!" *She was beaming because she found the cause of it!*
Me:"why?"
Nusaybah:" it's because you eat egg that's why you got stomach-egg (read: stomachache) 
๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜I can't stop laughing!
she pronounced "stomachache" correctly though but I think she heard me saying "stomachache" sounded like "stomach-egg"#BlameTheMom

{Percakapan} Tua dan surga

Nusaybah is always excited about numbers and she likes a bit mathematical qs ๐Ÿ˜œperhaps it's because she is currently learning about it in nursery, she's starting to ask how old I'm and how old her baba is and commented: 
"Wow, that's a lot of number mama!!  You and baba are very old"
Ouch!!!
but then she asked
Nusaybah: "mama, how old are you then when I'm your age?"
Me:"If Allah ุณุจุญุงู†ู‡ ูˆ ุชุนุงู„ู‰ still give me life, I will be 68 years old!"
N:"wooow!! And how old are you when I'm 68 then?"
Me:"oh well, I will be more than 100 years old Nusaybah, why!?
She didn't stop there
"And how old are you when I'm 100 years old?"
Me:" I won't be in this duniya I guess, wallahu 'alam" 
N:"why mama?"
Me:"because most likely I am dead by then, what it means, Allah takes me back to meet Him"
N:"and go to Jannah?"
Me:" ุงู† ุดุงุกٓ ุงู„ู„ู‡, I pray and hope so"
N:"then, all peopl…

{Percakapan} anak dan menua

Percakapanku dengan anak pertamaku (Nusaybah 4,5 tahun) - terjemahan dari bhs Inggris 
N:"mama, kalau aku sudah seusia mama, apa aku harus punya anak juga?"
M:"hmmm, ya tergantung, Nanti Allah ngasih nggak?, kalau Nusaybah mau dan Allah ngasih ya bisa punya anak"
N:" aku ga mau punya anak!"M:"loh kenapa??"N:" aku ga mau dokter membuka perutku dan menjahit perutku, pasti kan sakit mama!" *sambilBerurai airmata beneran*
M:" oh!!!" *meluk dia sambil garuk garuk kepala*
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Lain waktu:
Kami punya tetangga (nenek- usianya 70an) yang hidup Sendiri dan sering sakit, keluar masuk RS. Suatu hari Nusaybah melihat sang nenek ini di bawa oleh ambulan, beliau harus berjalan ke ambulan yang di parkir di pinggir jalan, pelan dan nampak kesakitan.Setelah kami masuk rumah dan setelah Nusaybah menyaksikan kejadian itu dia bertanya:
"Mama, apakah aku juga tua nanti?"
M:" tentu iya, semua orang mengalami proses dari kecil, muda, tua, kecu…

Cara hebat Sayyidina Ummar Bin khathab menghadapi ujian hidup

Adalah Umar bin Khattab yang layak ditiru dalam cara menghadapi musibah. Di dalam buku "Ketika Merasa Allah Tidak Adil" dicantumkan ihwal trik Umar bin Khattab bangkit dari musibah. Setiap kali ia mendapati musibah, sebanyak empat kali mengucapkan kata "hamdalah". Aneh, bukan? Sejatinya, inilah trik untuk bangkit dari musibah yang menghimpit diri.
1. Hamdalah pertama dimaknai oleh Umar bin Khattab sebagai rasa syukur bahwa Allah tidak menurunkan musibah yang lebih berat dan lebih dahsyat dari apa yang dialaminya. Hamdalah ini menunjukkan, ada sedikit cerita sedih yang awal terlintas di dalam diri Umar bin Khattab. Namun, rasa syukurnya jauh lebih lama bersamanya.
Ia yakin, bahwa musibah yang dilaluinya sudah terjadi dan tidak mungkin diubah lagi. Jadi lebih baik bersyukur kepda Allah, karena dalam menghadipi musibah ini masih bisa tegar, masih bisa menghirup udara dan masih bisa meraih hidup yang bahagia. Musibah pasti akan berlalu seiring dengan waktu demi waktu yan…

Perbincangan dan teman

Great people talk about ideas Average people talk about things Small people talk about wine - Fran Lebowitz -
Kalau di terjemahkan ke dalam bahasa Indonesia kurang lebih artinya: 
Orang hebat berbincang tentang ide Orang biasa berbincang tentang hal2 (keseharian) Orang rendahan berbincang tentang anggur (minuman keras)
Makna tersirat dari ungkapan itu sebenarnya bertutur tentang jenis pemikiran kita dan ini di indikasikan melalui perilaku.
Orang yang punya visi dan otaknya berisi (ga harus dengan jenjang pendidikan) maka mereka cenderung bicara tentang ide ide besar yang ingin mereka raih, termasuk ide untuk mengubah kehidupan dia dan orang di sekitarnya. Orang biasa adalah orang yang hanya berbicara tentang kehidupan pribadi mereka saja.
Kita semua pasti punya teman yang "klik" alias cocok dimana kita bisa bertukar pikiran dan pendapat. Namun pastinya  kita juga memiliki teman yang hanya sekedar saling menyapa karena memang bahan perbincangan kita tidak pernah ketemu di satu titik.
Con…

Posting pertama lewat bloggegr APP

ุงู„ุณู„ุงู… ุนู„ูŠูƒู… ูˆ ุฑุญู…ุฉ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ูˆุจุฑูƒุงุชู‡ semuanya ุณุจุญุงู† ุงู„ู„ู‡  Udah lamaaaaa sekali rasanya tidak menorehkan tinta di blog ini *cieeeeh
Berhubung kesibukan menjadi Ibu dari dua gadis kecilku 4,5 tahun dan 19 bulan ditambah kegiatan rutin (pengajian dan mengorganisir) dan untuk selalu mencoba menjadi ummat yang peduli  ุงู„ุญู…ุฏ ู„ู„ู‡ ุฑุจ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…ูŠู† 
Hari ini kok terpikir, kenapa aku ga upload aja lewat HP, hari gini Udah ga sempat duduk manis di depan kompi dan mengetik ria, dan voila!! Inilah posting perdana dari blogger APP di HP ku
Asyik juga ternyata karena keyboard yang aku pakai ada autocorrect jadi bisa ngetik lebih cepat tanpa harus benerin tulisannya ๐Ÿ˜‰he ๐Ÿ˜€he ☺️he *malas mode On!
Anyway, ini sekedar kata pembuka Semoga ada hal hal lain yang bisa aku bagi dan bisa bermanfaat untuk para pembaca setia blogger ku *GR amat ada yang baca*
Till Then ุงู„ุณู„ุงู… ุนู„ูŠูƒู… ูˆ ุฑุญู…ุฉ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ูˆุจุฑูƒุงุชู‡ 

Teori tentang karakter

TIPE – TIPE KARAKTERDidunia ini hanya ada 3 macam karakter pada diri manusia, seperti layaknya hanya ada 3 potensi didalam diri mereka1. orang yang berimej kuat positif 2. orang yang berimej kuat negatif 3. orang yang tidak berimej kuat ciri ciri dari masing masing karakter dalam diagram adalahNo Berimej kuat positif Berimej kuat negatif Tidak berimej kuat 1 Percaya diri penuh karena menaggap dirinya selalu hebat Sangat tidak percaya diri karena selalu menganggap dirinya lemah&penuh kekurangan Kadang percaya diri kalau ada orang yang bilang dia hebat, tapi mudah untuk tidak percaya diri saat ada yang bilang dia kurang 2 Optimis Pesimis Kadang optimis kadang pesimis 3 Banyak bersyukur dan senyum Banyak meratapi nasib & sering menangis dalam hidupnya Mudah sekali tersenyum dan mudah sekali menangis dalam hitungan detik 4